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AI dating & relationship coach

Get the guy
you want.

One guy. One plan. Your next move, every day — from “does he like me?” to “we're together.”

iPhone, iOS 17 and up English & German Stays on your phone
The GetHim home screen showing today's mission

Sound familiar

You're not confused.
You're missing information.

He's on your mind constantly and you've read the same three messages more times than you'd admit. That's not a character flaw — it's what happens when you care about someone and can't tell where you stand.

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One move a day

A specific, small thing to actually do — chosen for exactly where you are with him right now. Open the app, know what to do, close the app.

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A coach who knows him

His name, his signals, what he said last week. The advice is about him, not about men in general — any time of night.

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A path with an end

Seven stages, and two or three named steps out of each one. You always know what's left before the next stage.

Today

Something to do. Not something to worry about.

Every mission is small enough for a normal day and tagged with the mechanism behind it — reciprocity, self-disclosure, anticipation. You're not guessing, and you're not memorising theory. You're doing one thing.

Learn more →
Today's mission in the GetHim app

The way forward

You can see what's left.

Each stage has two or three key steps that describe something real having changed — asking him something that can't be answered in one word, moving a conversation to voice. Finish them and the journey moves on its own.

See the seven stages →
The journey screen showing the key steps of the current stage

Your coach

For the 2am questions.

What did that message mean. What do I send back. Should I wait. Ask it here instead of screenshotting him into a group chat — and get an answer that remembers the whole story, not just the last text.

Where we draw the line →
The coach chat in the GetHim app

The path

A journey with a beginning and an end.

Not endless dating advice. One man, seven stages, and a clear next step every single day until you get there.

1

Crush

He's on your mind. He barely knows it yet.

2

Getting Closer

You're becoming a real person to him, not a name.

3

Talking Stage

The conversation has its own life now.

4

First Date

Time to move it out of the phone.

5

Dating

You're seeing each other. Nothing is defined yet.

6

Relationship

You got him.

7

Growing Together

The part nobody writes guides about.

Where we draw the line

Psychology, not tricks.

Every piece of advice in the app names the mechanism behind it. Nothing gets in without one — and everything has to survive a single test.

The rule

“Nothing in here depends on him not noticing.”

If a piece of advice only works while he's in the dark, it doesn't go in the app. What's left is the stuff that works precisely because it's real — showing up, saying the true thing clearly, having a life of your own, and reading his behaviour honestly. Including when it says no.

Reciprocity Self-disclosure Anticipation Appreciation Playful tension Showing up well

Pricing

Free to try him out.

Download the app, build his profile and see where you stand. Everything after that — the daily missions, the coach, the whole journey — is one subscription.

Start

Set up

Free
  • Build his profile
  • Find your stage
  • See what the journey looks like
Download

No account. No card.

Everything

GetHim

€49.99 / year
  • Three missions to choose between, one a day, chosen for your stage
  • The coach, any time of night
  • Key steps and automatic stage progression
  • Milestones and your timeline, kept
  • Relationship Mode after you get there
Get the app

Renews yearly. Cancel any time in the App Store.

Questions

The things people ask first.

Isn't this manipulation?

No — and that's the line the app is built on. Nothing goes in that depends on him not noticing it. What's left works whether or not he can see it, which is also why it keeps working once he does. You're not running a strategy on him. You like someone, and the app helps you show it well.

Does it really work for one specific guy?

That's the whole point. You tell the app who he is, how you met and where things stand, and everything from that moment on is about him. No generic “men are like this” advice.

What if it doesn't work out?

Then the app says so. It reads his behaviour honestly, including when the honest read is no. You can close a journey and start a new one — your level, your streak and your progress stay yours, because they were never his.

What happens after we're together?

The coaching stops and the record begins. Relationship Mode keeps the days together, the anniversaries and the whole story — plus missions about staying interesting to each other, which is the part nobody writes guides about.

Where does my data go?

Everything you write — his name, your notes, your chats — stays on your iPhone. There's no account to create and nothing to sign up for.

Which languages does it speak?

English and German. In Germany, Austria and Switzerland the app comes up in German by default; everywhere else in English. More languages are coming.

Enough games.
Let's go get him.

He's already on your mind. Might as well have a plan.

Download on the App Store

Free to download. iPhone, iOS 17 and up.